Change a softbody scale /make different solvers interact together?

[imbalex0]

Not possible unfortunately. Mathematically, it’s not possible to change the scale of a deformable object using a transform (a single affine transform, that is). You can only do so for linear spaces.

Solvers can’t interact with each other, as that would require some sort of “super-solver” above all of them.

So there’s unfortunately no way to do what you want.

I thought so, thank for the answer. Now at least I know for sure.